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Leaving when there's still love there...
Jun 07, 2025

Leaving when there's still love there...

And how to do it in a safe way.

Mindy Deane
Mindy Deane
Vigilante, Villian, Victim: Time for Chapter 5
Jun 06, 2025

Vigilante, Villian, Victim: Time for Chapter 5

Leaving the Codependency and moving from drama into empowerment.

Mindy Deane
Mindy Deane
Continuing Right Along...
Jun 05, 2025

Continuing Right Along...

Worked out some kinks and I'm back to sharing again!

Mindy Deane
Mindy Deane
Reading Chapter 1
Jun 02, 2025

Reading Chapter 1

Sharing a sneak peek at my new book!

Mindy Deane
Mindy Deane
23 Ways to Leave
Jun 01, 2025

23 Ways to Leave

Sharing a sneak peek at my new book!

Mindy Deane
Mindy Deane
Mapping My Trauma for Someone Who Actually Gives AF
May 28, 2025

Mapping My Trauma for Someone Who Actually Gives AF

Why I still flinch when love feels good—and what I’m learning about healing in real time.

Mindy Deane
Mindy Deane
These are the Facebook memories most people hide...
May 22, 2025

These are the Facebook memories most people hide...

The ones that remind you of people who are gone...

Mindy Deane
Mindy Deane
The Day I Finally Said the D Word
May 19, 2025

The Day I Finally Said the D Word

What leaving looks like four years later, and what I've learned about loss and love along the way.

Mindy Deane
Mindy Deane
The Lawn Chair
May 10, 2025

The Lawn Chair

(This was the first essay I wrote after my husband chose suicide over divorce in May 2021.)

Mindy Deane
Mindy Deane
She Taught Me How to Stop Abandoning Myself
May 04, 2025

She Taught Me How to Stop Abandoning Myself

— An Open Love Letter to Glennon Doyle

Mindy Deane
Mindy Deane
POV: You’re My Coaching Client
Apr 18, 2025

POV: You’re My Coaching Client

A powerful look inside a real coaching session—how one mom began healing trauma, breaking cycles, and becoming the emotionally healthy parent she never had.

What, Like It’s Hard?
Apr 10, 2025

What, Like It’s Hard?

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I spent 23 years behind the chair helping women feel beautiful—but behind the scenes, my own life was unraveling. I didn’t get divorced…I got widowed. Suicide broke my world apart, and I’ve living by my own rules ever since. Grief cracked me open, truth saved me, and now I’m making my way from hairstylist to full-time life coach, writer, and healing-circle junkie. I’m finishing up my first book, 23 Ways to Leave—a heart-filled how-to on walking away from toxic people, patterns, and pain—and sharing the messy magic of starting over, again and again. 'Still Processing' is where I spill the tea on everything messy, unhinged, and behind the scenes along the way. Because healing takes time, and we're all still processing something. If you've run out of 'nice' things to say, come sit by me. This is where we get real and raw about what it means to heal.

Still Processing

I spent 23 years behind the chair helping women feel beautiful—but behind the scenes, my own life was unraveling. I didn’t get divorced…I got widowed. Suicide broke my world apart, and I’ve living by my own rules ever since. Grief cracked me open, truth saved me, and now I’m making my way from hairstylist to full-time life coach, writer, and healing-circle junkie. I’m finishing up my first book, 23 Ways to Leave—a heart-filled how-to on walking away from toxic people, patterns, and pain—and sharing the messy magic of starting over, again and again. 'Still Processing' is where I spill the tea on everything messy, unhinged, and behind the scenes along the way. Because healing takes time, and we're all still processing something. If you've run out of 'nice' things to say, come sit by me. This is where we get real and raw about what it means to heal.

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